Meet Lili M. O’Connell, Esq. — Skilled & Compassionate Defense Attorney

Lili O’Connell is a passionate and sharp criminal defense attorney with a strong track record of success in courts throughout Northern Virginia. Known for her agility in the courtroom and her unwavering commitment to her clients, Lili brings deep experience across criminal, domestic, and civil matters. She is especially skilled in navigating high-stakes cases involving Protective Orders, DUI/DWI, and misdemeanor and felony criminal charges, where her strategic thinking and strong courtroom presence consistently deliver results.

Lili’s legal practice spans multiple jurisdictions, including Fairfax, Alexandria, Arlington, Falls Church, Herndon, Vienna, Prince William, Stafford, Madison, and Loudoun. She has represented clients in General District, Circuit, and Juvenile & Domestic Relations Courts, earning a reputation among judges and opposing counsel as a prepared, persuasive, and principled advocate.

What truly sets Lili apart is her combination of legal precision and human empathy. She listens carefully to her clients’ concerns and provides straightforward, honest guidance every step of the way. Whether defending someone charged with a serious criminal offense or advocating for a protective order to keep them safe, she approaches each case with diligence, compassion, and fierce advocacy.

In addition to her extensive experience in criminal defense, Lili is a certified Guardian ad Litem for the Commonwealth of Virginia, where she advocates for the best interests of children in custody disputes, abuse and neglect cases, and juvenile delinquency matters. Her work in this role reflects her deep commitment to protecting vulnerable individuals within the legal system.

A native of New England, Lili earned both her Juris Doctor and her Bachelor of Arts from the University of Connecticut, where she developed a strong foundation in legal advocacy and public service. She is an active member of the Virginia State Bar and maintains strong professional ties through her involvement in the Fairfax Bar Association and the Prince William Bar Association.

When she’s not in the courtroom, Lili enjoys spending quality time with her husband, their children, and their two dogs. She is also an avid equestrian and finds balance and fulfillment in horseback riding and outdoor activities.